Three Way Dating Club Frequently Asked Questions
I am a single guy and want to try this with two woman who don’t know each other and make sure it is discrete. Can you do that?
The reason that females join the Three Way Dating Club is they know we can assist them in getting what they want. Many females also want their privacy and don’t want anyone to know they are in the club. That is why traveling is such an important part of the process – females plan a vacation and a Three Way Date being totally discrete. We make sure all three are safe and remain discrete about who and what happened. We all have the same goal, and most time, the females have more to lose through a modelling career or job position that the man.
We are married and scared of getting an STD or catching AIDS. What can we do to be safe?
Get tested and your new partner as well. Not only will this help your peace of mind the 3-Way Dating Club will give you VIP membership for FREE for being tested. Here is one of our affiliates who can help you with testing. Check out our safe sex page for more options. Click below for a discreet in home testing kit.
Does having boundaries mean I will be restricting my partner’s enjoyment? Are boundaries necessary?
Boundaries act as a safety-net, and define the limits of a threesome. By establishing boundaries, each person can emotionally prepare themselves for the threesome and reduce the chance of the unexpected happening.
How do I/we establish the rules?
To avoid hurt feelings or have the encounter derailed by miscommunication, it is essential to set ground rules before anyone’s clothes come off. Agreeing to play by the women’s rules will make her/them feel comfortable and erase any lingering questions.
Is having a threesome cheating?
Cheating is a term that is defined by each couple, and therefore, is entirely up to them/you to define.
How can I know if we decide to have a threesome, that it will be successful?
There is no way to know 100%. The best way is to consider some of the following:
- You are secure enough in your relationship, that you can have sex/be on a date with someone else in front of your partner; or you are secure enough in your relationship that you can watch your partner be intimate with someone else.
- The planning of the threesome has involved both of you, i.e. it is not a surprise!
- There has been no force, coercion, pressure, or manipulation used in deciding to have a threesome.
- Both of you are secure enough in your relationship whereby having sex with someone else will not destroy the relationship.
- Everyone is open, honest and had no hidden agenda.
What if this is new to me?
That is what your coach is for – she will make sure that you are paired with a couple that is right for you and sensitive to your needs.
I fantasize about being with a couple. As a single woman, is that okay?
You are amongst the privileged few that can understand all the fantastic opportunities you have by being a single female. Single, bi-curious females are in high demand and low supply, so you have the ability to seduce really good looking couples. A “unicorn” is the closet thing you can experience to being queen. Its all about you.
What if I feel jealous?
Jealousy is a good thing, unless it is backed with extreme insecurity. Your self-esteem needs to be high. If you are full of insecurities then it will kill the experience. Work on your jealousy and insecurities, with your partner and coach first. Men should respect the limits in these situations and be sensitive to jealousy issues from both partners. Everyone should keep in mind that this is supposed to be a hot, rewarding experience for all three people.
Is it safe?
It is much safer than meeting people online or in a bar. Our couples are screened and interviewed, prior to introductions. Men are met only in public, and are expelled from Three Way Dating Club for any rude or aggressive behavior.
Please speak to Three Way Dating Club if you have any particular questions, you are welcome to call us or email at any time. Click Here to ask us a question!